Someone Who Cheers Us On

A student walks through a quiet university campus, carrying books and stepping toward the future.

There is no greater joy than to watch a human being come awake—and to be a channel for that larger work. In giving His Son, the Father is cheering us on.
— Simone Riva
Simone Riva ENGLISH - Someone Who Cheers Us On
Simone Riva ESPAÑ0L - Alguien que nos anima
Simone Riva FRANÇAIS - Quelqu’un qui nous encourage
Simone Riva ITALIANO - Uno che fa il tifo per noi

Simone Riva - There is no greater joy than to watch a human being come awake—and to be a channel for that larger work. In giving His Son, the Father is cheering us on.

What is it that stirs a kind of nostalgia when you walk into the last class of the year with your seniors? Where does the question come from—what will be left of all this: the conversations, the provocations, the way they linger outside the classroom waiting for you, never quite calmly, with that funny self-consciousness of kids who don’t want to be caught caring and yet plainly relish the wait? It is as if a quiet hope surfaces: that somewhere in the twists and turns of life we might stay in touch, even though, in all likelihood, we will never see one another again.

For them it is time to set out toward whatever they are going to become—toward their Destiny. They have tried to picture it already—how many times have we talked it through?—but the road ahead will be full of the unforeseen and the unplanned, of sudden bursts of enthusiasm and of letdowns.

Just the other day, one of them wrote to me:

“Moments of fragility are necessary for growth, because we learn most of all from our mistakes. If someone wants to teach you something and you’re not interested in it, you’ll never learn it. But when you make a mistake, it means you cared about the thing in the first place, and you grasp for yourself what went wrong—nobody has to point it out from the outside. That’s why I think the strongest people are the ones who were weak at some point. I’ve learned, from my own fragility, to pay closer attention to what actually happens, and so I’ve grown more confident in what I live.”

Without quite having the words for it, my student had put his finger on something irreducible. The I that learns “from within”—through its own mistakes, its own caring, its own slow growth in confidence—cannot be delegated or simulated. It is not a function to be optimized but a person coming into being.

There is no greater gift than to be among those who have helped these young men discover what my student managed to put into words. It is like a race in which we adults stand along the route, cheering them on as they run. And God himself chose to reveal himself, quietly, in faces along that same road—as today’s Gospel reminds us—so that every man and woman might recognize the one Presence that, while utterly singular, embraces all: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life” (Jn 3:16).

The Father “gave his Son” so that we might feel, concretely and within history, his cheering for us. When the openness to take an interest in everything around us slowly comes alive, when our gaze lifts and our reason swings wide open, we come into a face-to-face encounter with that Presence who loves to move among us—confident that sooner or later our eyes will meet His, the very source of every opening.

Don Giussani, in one of his most decisive writings, described the dynamics of this encounter exactly:

“This encounter of the person with human diversity is something very simple, absolutely elementary, that comes before everything else, before any catechesis, reflection, or development: it is something that does not need to be explained, but only to be seen, encountered, which arouses wonder, stirs an emotion, constitutes a call, moves one to follow, by virtue of its correspondence to the heart’s structural longing” (Something That Comes First. Notes from Luigi Giussani’s address to the Assembly of Leaders, January 1993).

Notice the phrase: the heart’s structural longing. The desire that stirs in us at such an encounter is no passing mood; it is built into us, and it is structurally out of all proportion to anything we manage to grasp. Nothing we produce, achieve, or possess is large enough to answer it. This structural disproportion is not a flaw to be engineered away—it is the very opening through which the Mystery reaches us as a Presence, and the measure of our Correspondence to what we are made for. The encounter, then, is never something we manufacture; it is An Event that happens to us.

We can picture the Trinity’s ceaseless work precisely here, in the effort to reawaken the human within us—a humanity that cannot be simulated, as Pope Leo stressed in a passage from his first Encyclical, locating in lived experience what sets the human person apart from artificial intelligence:

“It is not possible to give a single, complete definition of AI. What we can affirm is that we must avoid the misunderstanding of equating this ‘intelligence’ with human intelligence. These systems mimic certain functions of human intelligence. In doing so, they often surpass it in speed and computational power, offering concrete benefits in numerous fields. And yet this power remains tied exclusively to data processing: so-called artificial intelligences do not experience life, do not possess a body, do not feel joy and pain, do not mature through relationships, and do not know from within what love, work, friendship, and responsibility mean. They do not even possess a moral conscience: they do not judge good and evil, do not grasp the ultimate meaning of situations, and do not bear the weight of consequences. They can imitate language, behavior, and judgments; they can simulate empathy or understanding, but they do not understand what they produce, because they do not inhabit the affective, relational, and spiritual realm in which human beings become wise. Even when such tools are presented as capable of ‘learning,’ their way of doing so is different from that of the human person. It is not the experience of one who lets oneself be shaped by life and grows over time through choices, mistakes, forgiveness, and fidelity; it is, rather, a statistical adaptation based on data and feedback—one that can be highly effective, but that involves no inner growth” (Magnifica humanitas, 99).

The contrast could not be sharper. Where the machine adapts, the person matures; where the machine processes, the I grows—through choices, mistakes, forgiveness, fidelity. This is the very thing my student described from the inside, and the very thing the Father cheers on.

So the question that remains is really an invitation: may the challenge of these new technological frontiers become an occasion to rediscover the gift that our humanity is. And then even our longing for certain faces will turn into the certainty of their enduring presence.

Simone Riva

Don Simone Riva, born in 1982, is an Italian Catholic priest ordained in 2008. He serves as parochial vicar in Monza and teaches religion. Influenced by experiences in Peru, Riva authors books, maintains an active social media presence, and participates in religious discussions. He's known for engaging youth and connecting faith with contemporary

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